Changing children's living arrangements

Can children's arrangements be changed as circumstances change? 

Parents can agree new arrangements for their child at any time (regardless of whether the previous arrangements were reached by agreement or were recorded in a court order).

If the parents cannot agree whether the arrangements should change or how they should change, then they can apply to the court (but see also Do I have to go to court to decide where our children will live when we separate?) for a 'child arrangements order' (either a new one or a variation to one which is already in place). This is a court order setting out who the child should live with and/or spend time with, and the court may also be asked to deal with other important issues relating to the child, such as what schools they should attend. The court will make a decision based on the best interests of the child.

There is no set time for how long a court order needs to be in place before one parent can apply to change it, but the court will only make a new order if it thinks that is in the best interests of the child. It would usually need to be the case that circumstances had changed, meaning that the old arrangements were no longer working.

In these FAQs and answers, we use 'England' as a shorthand for 'England and Wales' because England and Wales share a single legal system. Scotland, meanwhile, is a different legal system and has different rules for many aspects of family law.

We have also chosen to talk about 'marriages' most of the time (which may be between either an opposite or same-sex couple). Unless we say otherwise, what we have said is also true of civil partnerships (which may also be between an opposite or same-sex couple).

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